Inshallah i want to get married one day, imagine your wife waking you up for fajr, no need for alarm clocks. You know what they say, the earlier the better!
Any hows I think we all want to get married, find a partner that can help us stay on the deen and finally get those shatan temptations out of our hearts, this society puts alot of pressure on all of us and we have to constantly keep ourselves in check. Its part of our natural inclination, if your a man you need a woman, and if your a woman you need a man. Doesn’t get any simpler than that. Allah sent eve to Prophet Adam in paradise because he felt lonely. How wonderful, Subhanullah!
As you know getting married is completing half of our deen, so you would definitely want to make sure your choice is official tissue, pray Allah gets you the right person thats helps you stay on Islam, so inshallah you can chill together in heaven reclining on couches sipping that wine. I want to put some ayahs of Surah Waqiah – which is Surah number 56, its real beautiful. Allah describes how the believers will be chilling in paradise.
[Waqia`h 56:27] And those on the right – how (fortunate) are those on the right![Waqia`h 56:28] Among thorn-less lote-trees.
[Waqia`h 56:29] And clusters of banana plants.
[Waqia`h 56:30] And in everlasting shade.
[Waqia`h 56:31] And in perpetually flowing water.
[Waqia`h 56:32] And plenty of fruits.
[Waqia`h 56:33] That will neither finish, nor ever be stopped.
[Waqia`h 56:34] And raised couches.
[Waqia`h 56:35] We have indeed developed these women with an excellent development.
[Waqia`h 56:36] So made them as maidens.
[Waqia`h 56:37] The beloved of their husbands, of one age.
[Waqia`h 56:38] For those on the right.
Wow Inshallah, Now let me talk about the real story, since the Internet has everything you can think of, including Shiekh Google, for 24 hour fatwas. Recently i have also seen a spark of Muslim matrimonial websites and advertisements for them. I don’t know how legit they are and if you agree with the process of how the marriage is set up, but it seems as if some of them are contributing to successful marriages, they even have success stories.
Alot of Muslims seeking partners seem to be using the Internet to find their spouse, but i feel uncomfortable for some reason. I guess thats me, i was just analyzing how these sites present themselves, one site called SingleMuslim.com offers random prizes such as umrah vacation for new couples, you can actually win a umrah trip for free. Yea thats hot, imagine going to umrah or hajj as soon as you get married, start a new life with your new wife fresh like new born baby’s.
One of the success stories was written by a sister named Alia she wrote ”
“Thank you so much I have found the love of my life we are due to marry early this summer. I owe this website everything inshallah I will be happier then ever before and it all down to Single Muslim allah hafiz.”
In addition they also have Islamic articles on marriage and how to be a good spouse, seems like they really trying to make the online service the newest way for Single Muslims to get married especially in the west and not using the traditional methods. I guess it all comes down to the situation and we must make the right decisions to approach marriage the halal way.
So what do you think about these websites and their services for Muslims trying to get married? If your looking for other ways to get married, the two biggest Islamic organizations in North America ISNA and ICNA offer matrimonial services also.
So we pray Allah help all of us get married to a good person and help us raise good family’s and make this society better!
Oh yea i wasn’t trying to promote any website or anything, i just wrote this article to think about these particular sites and get some feedback on what you think just for the record.
And just to let all of you know my mom does ristha’s, haha, no seriously, she told me recently she has a list of 40 girls and she has hardly any men, so if you want to get the hookup, let me know ill refer you to the my mom!
Wasalam I’m out! Just remember ” Chill Yo Islam Yo Gotta Get Married Quick and the Halal way YO!